What do you do when your husband does not want to make the marriage work?

My husband and I have been having problems for the past 8-9 months. I have tried talking to him using several different approaches and nothing seems to have d. As soon as I present the issues he is on track for about a couple of weeks but after that it is back down the same road. I have suggested marriage counseling several time but he is not receptive to the idea. Affection, attentiveness, communication, intimacy is GONE! The heartbreaking thing is that he wasn't like this before we got married, obviously. I feel that I have been a good wife. I make him feel wanted and loved. I pay close attention to his needs and wants, I want to be affectionate with him and I feel that I have sacrificed so much for him but nothing is reciprocated. I don't want to be that statistic of divorce but I want and deserve to be happy, anyone does. My husband is infatuated with the XBOX 360. Him, his two brothers, cousin and two good friends all get together and decide what time they want to get online and they play until 2-3 o'clock in the morning. 4 night I have gone to be all by myself. If I chose to talk to my husband about this issue this would not he the 2nd, 3rd, 4th or 5th time. That is the part that makes me feel that he does not want things to work out. I believe that my husband takes me for granted. He thinks that I am always going to be there. so I have talked to my mom and she says that I can come back home with her for a little while. In other words get a physical separation. Please Help!!! I don't know what to do!