My daughter is 9 months and I am going crazy!?

So my daughter is 9 months old. She has suddenly decided she HATES sleeping, she fights her naps with a vengence, she wont take her pacifier or even drink a bottle if she is tired because it might make her sleepier. She will scream bloody murder if you do anything that she ociates with sleep. On top of that I can't set her down for a second without her throwing a fit, she acts like she is mortally wounded if I do. and If I leave the room, god help us all... she has a complete emotional breakdown, or that is what she would like you to believe. My hubby tries to let me get an extra hour of sleep in the mornings, but All I here is mamamamamama or I wan mamamama. Has this happened to any of you? Any suggestions? I am not able to get anything done during the day, my nerves are frazzled. I hate the cryitout idea, but have had to let her cry so I can eat, wash her bottles, make dinner, but she gets unbelievably upset and it seems like it makes the rest of the day even worse. HELP!