Do you think you should just ignore the fact that your parents made ual come ons to you?

and innuendos and leers? Because mine did to me and I very rarely talk to them as I felt like I was part of their fantasy life and it made me feel molested but my mother acts like she did nothing wrong? She is so strange.This is normal to her. Likewise, I have two brothers; one who did molest me and the second who I went for a drink with and who actually leered at my chest after a few pints..All act like everything is normal and nothing happened. I do not imagine things. I am v. realistic but why are abusive people like this? I see it in those that are just in life; horrible one day, sweet the next and it is crazy but when it involves ual things; why do they have no shame re: their behaviours?